of relationship

i cant sleep. for all the comfort my bed provides, i cant freaking get to sleep. urgh!

been thinking bout relationship. there are times when there'll be pple who tease u and someone and make u both an item. then it goes on and sometimes it gets to an extent where nothing becomes something.

you begin to wonder if u really like him, and he also wonders if he likes u.
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Den you decide to give this relationship a try.

And then aft a while, you realise tt life comes back to a full circle. for all that 'trying', u eventually come to an understanding that sometimes, friendship is much more sought for than boy-girl relationship. [or for tt matter, bbr/ggr] Why?

in my point of view, commitment dun come into the picture when u r friends. even if u dun see each other for 1-2 weeks, or even 1-2mths, all u nd to do is just call and find out how the person is doing. But if u dun go out wif ur other half at least once a week, or once every 2 weeks, this whole thing about commitment bugs u. How much are you committing into e relationship? Why arent u seeing each other? With commitment ties in the other aspect, ie obligations.

Obligations are when u feel the need to fulfil certain roles. To take care of yourself, to inform each other n keep each other updated of whereabouts, to give of yourself physically/emotionally etc. i mean, as friends, yes u do have certain obligations, but u dun need to take care of urself too much. coz friends dun have a tendency to be overprotective, but will be generally supportive of wad u do.

Funny isnt it, how sometimes u get closer to a person when u stop trying to do so. While in the past when u tried ways and means to do so, often u received a cold shoulder. or the person starts to avoid u coz he/she becomes afraid of being misunderstood.

i'm not an expert in relationship but in some aspects, can safely say its tried and tested.

Let it go.